Studies say it takes us only 7 seconds to generate our initial opinion of another person. 7 seconds! Think about that for a minute. That individual standing across from you has spend years learning and growing, seeing the world from completely different eyes. They have seen loss, and overcome challenges. They have had victories, and lost battles.
They have lived stories that no other person in this world could tell. And yet, we are so confident in ourselves, that we have the audacity to sum them up in the same amount of time it takes to inhale a gulp of coffee? My word – we are truly pretentious creatures.
And let’s not forget that we’re not the only ones judging. Rest assured that your onlookers are developing those same opinions about you! And while those impressions are all but completely out of your control, it is your choice to let those 7 seconds define you, or to live the life you’ve created for yourself. The method to my madness: embrace the inner beauty of yourself, and those around you. All the time. How much better would the world be if we saw people for who they truly are on the inside, not how they are perceived by our first glance. Inner beauty always shines through, but give it a chance to radiate eh?
While embracing your inner beauty, let’s also not forget to be beautiful inside. Inside our clothes that is. I first discovered True and Co. from a Facebook ad (yes marketing people… they do work). I was intrigued enough to check them out, and made my first purchase a year ago. Their motto:
“Confidence begins with a great fit. Why limit yourself to “size” when your beautiful body is made up of so much more?”
If you’re like every other women in the world, you probably often struggle with knowing exactly what is your proper bra size. And don’t even get me started on in-store bra sizing… What do you mean a A??? I wore a B last week and it fit just fine!!! Are my boobs SHRINKING??? haha jk #butforreal #wtf
True & Co creates an account for you based on your measurements (not your size) and not only tells you the size you SHOULD be wearing, but also shows you a range of bras that fit perfectly to those measurements… even if they are alternate sizes. Just got this new set and I’m in love all over again.
Felt like throwing off my typical b&w ensemble with a splash of blue to match the clear fall sky. Got this jewel from Micha. Hey, gotta bling it up every once in a while right? I don’t wear statement jewelry often, but when I do, I always feel like it adds a lot to the overall look.
In other news, rocking another case from Felony – this one in their smoke marble design. They just got it in a darker shade too… I want both!
A special shoutout to a fellow blogger Hearts & Crafts, who’s working on launching a fashion line. She sent me this Fabuleux T as a gift, so be sure to support your blogger community and check her out. Her site is a thing of beauty.
Thoughts drifting to the upcoming weekend. It’s almost Halloween! And I didn’t even make a mention… Oh well, perhaps next time around. Here’s to hoping no one is making their 7 second impressions while I’m in my pancake costume. #thatsnotreallymycostume #butnowimhungryforpancakes #noms
gosh kristina, you make BRA look fashionable!! hahah but those really are gorgeous :)
haha well it’s such a pretty bra that part was easy ;) hope you’re having a beautiful week Annie!
This post is so amazing, the photos are breathtaking and the message you have written is perfect! Love you boo!
Joy xx.
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thanks so much Joy, love you back =) and happy FRIDAY… so excited. hope you get some r&r time =)
Thanks love! Same to you!!
Joy xx.
Nobody would dare to judge someone in a pancake costume O_o Love that style where the shirt gives you a peek of the bra ;)
hehe let’s hope not. trick or treat!
Hello gorgeous Tina!!!! You are so freakin’ hot in those leather pants. Love your style girl!!! Have a great week!
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thank you beautiful babe! hope you have some fun plans for halloweeeen
such a cool ootd! love the shirt..
Kisses,
BLOG | Taislany
isn’t it cute! and I just love seeing entrepreneurs at work
So beautiful! and I’m in love your blog,too!
Hope we could follow each other.
Inviting you to my blog > http://fetish-tokyo.blogspot.com/
the feeling is mutual! I tried to subscribe but I don’t have google plus =( you should have an email-only subscription also!
I love how everything in the back is black and white but you’re skin contrasts it!
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thanks so much babe, and happy weekend =)
It’s kind of scary that we judge people within 7 seconds of meeting them. Wow. On a happier note, this necklace is BEAUTIFUL!
https://forsevenseasons.wordpress.com
haha I thought you would like it! =)
Love these photos! You chose the perfect place to take photos of this look! Your dog is so beautiful! I’m looking forward to your Halloween costume pictures!
Danielle
http://www.spring2spring.com
she’s such a babe haha still have to figure out my costume! 8)
♥
<3
Love this look and these pictures! Awesome!
love you xoxo
Loved your post, such a beautiful introduction for an amazing label! Beautiful photography as always. Really enjoy your bright and clean vibes through your words and pictures!
http://www.sanssouci.website
thank you! saw a really beautiful cut top with edgy lines this week and thought of you =)
Buy it wear it post it!!
don’t encourage my shopaholicism! haha
This outfit is just stunning! Love the details =)
– Cielo
Mermaid in Heels
thank you Cielo – you are too kind =)
I love this look…it is such a stylish outfit!
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http://ourruins.com
many thanks and happy weekend!
I like how you styled these lingerie with this basic chic outfit. You’ve got a really cute necklace too.
Have a nice day!
xoxo,
SHAIRA
http://www.missdream-girl.blogspot.com
many thanks babe! love a little peak of bra =)
Nice photos :)
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Maria V.
thank you maria
You look fantastic! In 7 seconds, my opinion of you is that you’re gorgeous!! ;)))
hahahaha thanks Caramella!
You’re really an inspirational person. Love how you’re not afraid to disclose your vulnerability- really refreshing and excited to continue reading more of your posts. Love your style aesthetic as well, so clean so good, so chic!
http://thestylishflaneuse.com/
thanks so much for taking the time to read it! that always means a lot to me (I always think my boyfriend is the only one who does more than look at the photos haha ;) happy almost-halloween =)
Such a cool outfit! 7 seconds? WOW!
Dora http://www.BangsBang.com
right! haha have a great weekend Dora
Love this outfit, the minimalistic stye is gorgeous! Great post!
xo Kiki
http://colormekiki.com/
thanks so much Kiki babe!
Your writing always inspires! And your accessories are always perfect, that blue necklace was breathtaking. Always a breath of fresh air reading your posts.
xo, Tristan | Gold Lion Style
thank you so much for taking the time to read it Tristan! the blog lovin is mutual =)
Choosing the right bra size is not a nice experience experience ever. I am glad that there is a company trying to make this struggle a bit easier for women.
I think it is sad to think about how judgmental our society has become. I can’t wait until humanity will make a conscious shift to becoming less hollow.
http://www.chicuturnonglitz.blogspot.com
right! you’re dead on girl
Hi dear, your look is great!!!!! I love everything of this OOTD!!!
Chiara
http://shesinfashionblog.com
thanks so much Chiara!
Ooh, I love your thoughts about how we easily become pretentious creatures by summing up another person’s whole being in seven flaky seconds. And as always, I just love how you keep your look stripped down to the vital basics and never ever look ‘basic’ hehee. I like the way True And Co. defines ‘size’ as we all have our own unique sizes and we must learn to embrace this instead of trying to fit ourselves into the annoyingly varied ‘sizes’ on clothing labels that are out there! ;)
Shanaz | Fashionista NOW
thanks so much Shanaz… love your thoughts!
Gorgeous look. Have a great weekend
kisses Adela Acanski
thanks so much Adela, kisses back!
Amazing post dear! Have a nice day:)
irenethayer.com
many thanks Irene
You’re such a hottie baeee! You made this casual look so sexy with that beautiful lace bra underneath. LOVE IT!
http://doreensstylediary.com
tehe you’re making me blush
The lingerie looks nice! Yes it’s crazy how we judge and be judge so fast!
I would love to see this pancake costume ;)
Aurelie | http://www.surface85.com
bahaha it would truly be a sight to behold. I think I would just plant myself at waffle house and stay there for the night
You should wear statement necklaces more often, they look amazing on you! Love the message you’re writing about here…I didn’t know we make our minds up in only 7 seconds!
http://www.tongue-in-chic.com
thanks Naeun! crazy right? hope you’re enjoying your Tuesday morning beautiful
Thats so interesting about first impressions! Fashion must be a big factor. Great ensemble as always! :)
http://trend-mixblog.com/
fashion is totally a factor! good thing you’re always looking fab ;)
I love your outfit, you look hot! Have a fun week.
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thank you hotness!